Ruined Orgasm

An intentional failure to achieve full orgasm, often used for teasing or as part of extended play.

Advanced Level
Medium Risk
A ruined orgasm is a consensual BDSM practice in which stimulation is intentionally reduced or stopped immediately as orgasm occurs, resulting in a less intense climax. Some participants include it as part of orgasm control or power exchange dynamics. Preferences vary considerably, and it is not enjoyable for everyone. Communication, negotiated expectations, and mutual consent are essential.
Equipment Needed
None (optional vibrator lubricant)
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